5. He should take care of his own finances
A normal man knows what he needs to do to make money. This is his responsibility and if he is serious, then he will provide you with all you need. Do not give him your money. And do not support him financially. This rule applies to absolutely all couples. Maybe this approach is a bit old-fashioned, but it is the man who is called the provider. If he is still a kid who cannot take responsibility for himself, you and his kids, then there is no point in continuing your relationship with him.6. You do not have to give up on your hopes and dreams for the sake of your relationship
There is no need to choose between your personal happiness as an individual person and your happiness with another person. You can have both. However, stay alert and do not let your partner tell you that you should settle down and become a housewife. Even if your man makes a lot of money, you can have your own ambitions and goals. Only weak men ask their women to give up on their dreams and goals. They know that once you achieve them you’ll become more successful, popular and independent.