5. Less frequent gourmet meals
If you are a couple but have no kids yet, then you are free to make gourmet meals as often as you wish. There is nothing wrong at all. And being interested in cooking and exotic recipes is a great hobby. Nevertheless, things may change when you decide to have kids. And the more kids you have, the less time you have to prepare top notch dinners. You’ll have to make such meals less often. Couples with kids are advised to make their meals simple and easy and use the time for other things – helping kids with their homework, tidying up, etc.

6. Priorities
Each partner needs to be aware of his or her hierarchy of importance. Know your priorities and concentrate on things that make your life complete. You have to know your obligations, duties and responsibilities. Filter your values and follow your own dreams and ambitions in order to make your family life as happy as possible. Be realistic and do not participate in activities that can distract you or make your spouse and children suffer. Volunteering, charity organizations and new duties must align with your priorities and values. Determine your purposes and let your time belong to you and your family rather than strangers.